Thelma Butler remembers well planning a quaint Valentine’s Day
dinner with her daughter, Pamela, in February 2009. The 79-year-old
Washington, D.C., native spoke to Pamela by phone just two days before
the big day, to make sure she had all the details exactly right.
“She
wasn’t married, but I knew she may have other plans anyway,’’ says
Butler. “I told her that I sure wanted to have dinner with her if it
were all right and she said, 'OK, Mom, I’ll pick you up at 5.'’’
That
phone call was the last time Thelma Butler spoke to her daughter, then
47, and nearly three years later, she still wonders why. Tomorrow night
the TV One network tackles Butler’s case in the first installment of the
docudrama Find Our Missing, a show dedicated to telling the stories of missing persons of color. Hosted by Law & Order veteran actress S. Epatha Merkerson, the show will feature accounts of two people who have gone missing without a trace in each hourlong episode.
African-Americans,
both men and women, make up one third of all missing-person cases but
seldom appear as the topic of choice on the national news or as the
focus of popular mystery cable shows such as Disappeared or 48 Hours. Africa-Americans make up roughly less than 12 percent of the total population.
“It’s
hard not to question the reasons why people of color aren’t quite
treated the same,’’ says Derrick Butler, Pamela’s brother and a board
member of the foundation Black and Missing. “The pain of not knowing
what happened to someone you love is overwhelming no matter your age,
your town, or skin color. It is a hurt that doesn’t get any better when
you never get answers.”
In the last decade Lacey Peterson, Natalie Holloway, and Chandra Levy
have all become household names in the wake of their tragic
disappearances and subsequent assumed murders. Magazines, cable news
shows, and made-for-television movies all featured the painful events
surrounding each of those women’s disappearances, police investigations,
and family reactions. In sharp contrast, the names of missing women of
color such as Stacy Nicole English, Phoenix Coldon, and Phylicia Barnes
remain mostly unknown to the masses, and uninteresting to major
networks.
“Nearly
one third of the missing in this country are black, yet their stories
are rarely told,’’ says Wonya Lucas, TV One president and CEO. “We hope
our TV One efforts will be dramatic television, but also hope these
profiles will help trigger the memory of someone who might have seen
something and feel compelled to come forward and help these families."
TV
One will complement the on-air series with social media and online
content on tvone.com, which also will share important information on
what to do if someone is missing, tips on preventing abductions, and the
names and links of organizations that welcome electronic tips on cases.
Some believe the lack of focus on missing minorities allowed the likes of Anthony Sowell
to kidnap and kill more than 11 women of color in a working-class,
east-side neighborhood in Cleveland in 2009. Sowell was charged in an
83-count indictment, which included counts of aggravated murder,
kidnapping, and abuse of a corpse. Several families of the murdered
women filed a $42 million lawsuit against the city of Cleveland last
year, claiming racial discrimination. They alleged that police did not
monitor Sowell, a registered sex offender, largely because he lived in a
black community.
“A
lot of the women he killed were minorities, and some had drug problems
or other issues,’’ says Donnita Carmichael, whose mother was among the
11 women found dead in Sowell’s home. “When you put race and possible
drug use or some other offense in there—you know no one is going to
care. That’s what happened with the women here, and that’s what happened
with my mother.’’
According
to the Butler family, Pamela had a history devoid of drug use or
run-ins with the law. In fact, she was a well-respected, longtime
program analyst with the Environmental Protection Agency when she
disappeared from inside her Washington, D.C., home. Her boyfriend was
the last to see her, and her family continues to suspect his
involvement.
“From
the time she went missing to today, he’s never called me to say a
thing,’’ says Thelma Butler. “We found a note in the house that he had
written to her saying he’d been looking for her but couldn’t find her.
But he never called her family to ask about her. What does that say?”
For Merkerson, an Emmy- and Golden Globe–winning actress, the opportunity to host Find Our Missing was something she didn’t have to think very hard about before accepting.
“You
want to be a part of the community and give back to the community,’’
says Merkerson, who for 16 years portrayed police Lt. Anita Van Buren on
NBC’s Law & Order. “There used to be a time when we looked
out for each other and spoke up when something was wrong. We have to get
back to those days where we care about the fate of our neighbor. That’s
what I hope this show will cause people to do. Look around and tell
someone if something isn’t right.’’
It
all may be too late for the Butler family, as the third anniversary of
Pamela’s disappearance nears. “I used to think I’d hear from her
again,’’ says her mother. “Even after the first year, I thought I’d hear
from her. I don’t feel that way now. I don’t think that anymore.’’
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